Life is NOW….the past is a memory…a thought arising in the present ( NOW) same for future – it hasn’t happened yet – there is only NOW – thoughts about the future pop in – but NOW is the future that we create from – we create our life from our NOW.

Stop carrying the baggage of your past ( memory) into you’re precious Now Life. This containates the future that you create. Your future is your creation. You are continuously given the opportunity to create the best version of you. You are continuously being given the opportunity to do the best with you and your life.
Drop the victim. Its a thought process. Nothing more. If you are feeling this victim energy continually as if its a given….you will attracted other victims into your life where you wallow and validate each others reasons and excuses.  Healing is seeking out the company that will help you heal from victimhood beliefs ( its built on worn out beliefs  – that may have been true once )

Addictions grow in this victimhood soil. Overcoming victimhood is a victory. You might have been at the lowest point but even from there you can rise to the summit. Once step at a time, one thought one belief at a time.

Do the work…get out of the old drugery world that you are believing you are condemned to. You can move out. But only when you make the choice to no longer live there in your mind. You can move out once you make the decision to no longer live in that old world. Move out of the basement and into the penthouse of you. Live the life that is calling you. You have a dream planted in your heart and soul. Live it. Give it life. Birth it. It’s scary. But it’s doable…its achievable. And at worst you lived and died trying and believing in your self.

You deserve the best life has to offer – no less. But its up to you now.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3AE2j43LcR4

0:00
well a habit is a redundant set of
00:02
automatic unconscious thoughts behaviors
00:05
and emotions that’s acquired through
00:07
repetition the habit is when you’ve done
00:09
done something so many times that your
00:11
body now knows how to do it better than
00:13
your mind so if you think about it
00:15
people wake up in the morning they begin
00:19
to think about their problems those
00:21
problems are circuits memories in the
00:24
brain each one of those memories are
00:27
connected to people and things at
00:29
certain times and places and if the
00:31
brain is a record of the past the moment
00:33
they start their day they’re already
00:35
thinking in the past each one of those
00:37
memories has an emotion emotions are the
00:40
end product of past experiences so the
00:43
moment they recall those memories of
00:45
their problems they all of a sudden feel
00:46
unhappy they feel sad they feel pain now
00:49
how you think and how you feel creates
00:52
your state of being so the person’s
00:54
entire state of being when they start
00:56
their day is in the past so what does
00:58
that mean the familiar past will sooner
01:01
or later be predictable future so if you
01:04
believe that your thoughts have
01:06
something to do with your destiny and
01:07
you can’t think greater than how you
01:10
feel our feelings have become the means
01:13
of thinking by very definition of
01:15
emotions your thinking in the past and
01:17
for the most part you’re going to keep
01:18
creating the same life so then people
01:20
grab their cellphone they check their
01:23
what’s up they check their text they
01:24
check their emails they check facebook
01:26
they take a picture of their feet they
01:28
post it on Facebook they tweet something
01:30
they do Instagram they check the news
01:32
and now they feel really connected to
01:34
everything that’s known in their life
01:35
and then they go through a series of
01:38
routine behaviors they get out of bed on
01:40
the same side they go to the toilet they
01:42
got a cup of coffee they take a shower
01:44
they can trust they drive to work the
01:46
same way they do the same things they
01:47
see the same people that push the same
01:49
emotional buttons and that becomes the
01:52
routine and it becomes like a program so
01:55
now they’ve lost their free will to a
01:58
program and there’s no unseen hand doing
02:00
it to them so when it comes time to
02:03
change the redundancy of that cycle
02:05
becomes a subconscious program so now
02:09
95% of who we are by the time
02:12
or 35 years old is a memorized set of
02:15
behaviors emotional reactions
02:16
unconscious habits hardwired attitudes
02:18
beliefs and perceptions that function
02:21
like a computer program so then person
02:24
can say what their five percent of their
02:25
conscious mind I want to be healthy I
02:28
want to be happy I want to be free but
02:30
the body’s on a whole different program
02:32
so then how do you begin to make those
02:35
changes well you have to get beyond the
02:38
analytical mind because what separates
02:40
the conscious mind from the subconscious
02:42
mind is the analytical mind and as for
02:45
meditation comes in because you can
02:46
teach people through practice how to
02:49
change their brainwaves slow them down
02:51
and when they do that properly they do
02:53
enter the operating system where they
02:55
can begin to make some really important
02:56
changes so most people then wait for
03:00
crisis or trauma or disease or diagnosis
03:02
you know they wait for loss some tragedy
03:05
to make up their mind to change and my
03:07
message is why wait and and you can
03:09
learn and change in a state of pain and
03:10
suffering or you can learn and change in
03:12
a state of joy and inspiration I think
03:13
right now
03:14
the cool thing is that people are waking
03:16
up the the stronger the emotional
03:20
reaction you have to some experience in
03:23
your life the higher the emotional
03:25
quotient the more you pay attention to
03:28
the cause in the moment the brain puts
03:30
all of its attention on the cause it
03:32
takes a snapshot and that’s called the
03:34
memory so long-term memories are created
03:37
from very highly emotional experiences
03:41
so what happens then is that people
03:44
think neurologically within the
03:46
circuitry of that experience and they
03:48
feel chemically within the boundaries of
03:50
those emotions and so when you have an
03:54
emotional reaction to someone or
03:55
something most people think that they
03:57
can’t control their emotional reaction
03:59
well it turns out if you allow that
04:01
emotional reaction it’s called a
04:03
refractory period to last for hours or
04:05
days that’s called the mood
04:07
I say to someone hey what’s up and so
04:09
I’m gonna move well why are you in a
04:11
mood well I have this thing happen to me
04:12
five days ago and I’m having one long
04:15
emotional reaction if you keep that same
04:18
emotional reaction going on for weeks or
04:20
months
04:21
that’s called temperament why is he so
04:24
bitter I don’t know let’s ask him why is
04:25
he so bitter why are you bitter well I
04:27
had this thing happened to me nine
04:29
months ago and if you keep that same
04:31
emotional reaction going on for years on
04:33
end
04:34
that’s called a personality trait and so
04:37
learning how to shorten your refractory
04:39
period of emotional reactions is really
04:42
where that work starts so then people
04:45
when they have an event what they do is
04:48
they keep recalling the event because
04:50
the the emotions of stress hormones the
04:53
survival emotions are saying pay
04:55
attention to what happened because you
04:57
want to be prepared if it happens again
05:00
turns out most people spend 70% of their
05:03
life living in survival and living in
05:05
stress so they’re they’re always
05:07
anticipating the worst-case scenario
05:10
based on a past experience and they’re
05:12
literally out of the infinite potentials
05:15
in the quantum field they’re selecting
05:17
the worst possible outcome and they’re
05:19
beginning to emotionally embrace it with
05:21
fear and their conditioning their body
05:23
into a state of fear do that enough
05:25
times body has a panic attack without
05:28
you you you can’t even predict it
05:29
because it’s programmed subconsciously
05:31
so then you say to the person why are
05:35
you this way and they’ll say I am this
05:37
way because of this event that happened
05:39
to me 15 or 20 years ago and what that
05:42
means from biological standpoint is that
05:45
they haven’t been able to change since
05:47
that event so then the emotions from the
05:50
experience tend to give the body and the
05:53
brain a rush of energy so people become
05:56
addicted to the rush of those emotions
05:58
and they use the problems and conditions
06:00
in their life to reaffirm their
06:03
limitation so at least they can feel
06:05
something so now when it comes time to
06:07
change you say the person why are you
06:09
this way well every time they recall the
06:11
event
06:12
they’re producing the same chemistry in
06:14
their brain and body as if the event is
06:15
occurring firing and wiring the same
06:18
circuits and sentence the same emotional
06:20
signature to the body but what’s the
06:22
revelant behind that well your body is
06:25
the unconscious mind it doesn’t know the
06:26
difference between the experience that’s
06:28
creating the emotion and the emotion
06:30
that you’re creating by thought alone so
06:32
the body is believing is living in the
06:34
same past experience 24 hours a day
06:37
seven days a week 365 days a year and so
06:41
then when those emotions influence
06:42
certain thoughts and they do and then
06:45
those thoughts create the same emotions
06:47
and those same emotions influence the
06:49
same thoughts now the entire person’s
06:51
state of being is in the past so then
06:54
the hardest part about change is not
06:58
making the same choices either the day
07:00
before a period and the moment you
07:02
decide to make a different choice get
07:04
ready because it’s going to feel
07:06
uncomfortable I think that the bigger
07:08
thing is that we we keep firing and
07:11
wiring those circuits they become more
07:13
hardwired so there you have a thought
07:15
and then the program runs but it’s the
07:18
emotion that follows the thought if you
07:20
have a if you have a fearful thought
07:22
you’re gonna feel anxiety the moment you
07:24
feel anxiety your brains checking in
07:25
with your body and saying yeah you’re
07:27
pretty anxious so then you start
07:29
thinking more corresponding thoughts
07:31
equal to how you feel
07:33
while the redundancy of that cycle
07:35
conditions the body to become the mind
07:37
so now when it comes time to change the
07:40
person steps into that river of change
07:42
and they make a different choice in all
07:44
of a sudden they don’t they don’t feel
07:47
the same way so the body says well
07:50
you’ve been doing this for 35 years well
07:53
you’re gonna just stop field suffering
07:55
and stop feeling guilty and stop feeling
07:57
shameful and you’re not gonna complain
07:58
or blame or make excuses or feel sorry
08:01
for yourself well the body’s in the
08:03
unknown so the body says I want to
08:05
return back to familiar territory so the
08:08
body starts influencing the mind and it
08:11
says start tomorrow they’re too much
08:14
like your mother you’ll never change
08:15
this isn’t going to work for you this
08:16
doesn’t feel right and so if you respond
08:20
to that thought as if it’s true that
08:23
same thought will lead to the same
08:25
choice which will lead to the same
08:27
behavior which will create the same
08:28
experience which produce the same
08:30
emotion I want to talk about that notion
08:32
of give me a little more detail what you
08:35
mean by the body becomes the mind or the
08:37
unconscious mind what do you mean by
08:39
that exactly
08:41
well those are two different things your
08:42
body is your unconscious mind in a sense
08:46
if you’re sitting down and you start
08:49
thinking about some future worst-case
08:53
scenario that you’re conjuring up in
08:54
your mind and you begin to feel the
08:57
emotion of that event your body doesn’t
09:00
know the difference between the event
09:02
that’s taking place in your world outer
09:05
world and what you’re creating by
09:06
emotion or thought alone so most people
09:09
then they’re they’re constantly
09:11
reaffirming their emotional states so
09:14
when it comes time to give up that
09:16
emotion they can say I really want to do
09:19
it but really the body is stronger than
09:21
the mind because it’s been conditioned
09:23
that way so the servant now has become
09:26
the master and the person all of a
09:28
sudden once they step into that unknown
09:30
they’d rather feel guilt and suffering
09:32
because at least they can predict it
09:34
being the unknown is a scary place for
09:37
most people because the unknown is
09:39
uncertain people say to me well I can’t
09:41
predict my future I’m in the unknown and
09:44
I always say the best way to predict
09:46
your future is to create it not from the
09:48
known but from the unknown what thoughts
09:49
do you want to fire and wire in your
09:52
brain what behaviors do you want to
09:54
demonstrate in one day
09:55
the act of rehearsing the mentally
09:58
closing your eyes and rehearsing the
10:00
action by closing your eyes and mentally
10:02
rehearsing some action if you’re truly
10:05
present the brain does not know the
10:07
difference between what you’re imaging
10:08
and what you’re experiencing in 3d world
10:10
so then you begin to install the
10:12
neurological Hardware in your brain to
10:14
look like the event has already occurred
10:16
now your brain is no longer a record of
10:18
the past now it’s a map to the future
10:21
and if you keep doing it priming it that
10:23
way the hardware becomes a software
10:25
program and who knows you just may start
10:27
acting like a happy person and then I
10:29
think the hardest part is to teach our
10:33
body emotionally what the future will
10:35
feel like ahead of the actual experience
10:37
so what does that mean you can’t wait
10:39
for your success to feel empowered you
10:42
can’t wait for your wealth to feel
10:44
abundant you can’t wait for your your
10:47
new relationship to feel loved or
10:49
you’re healing to feel whole I mean
10:51
that’s the old model of reality of cause
10:53
and effect you know waiting for
10:55
something outside of us to change how we
10:57
feel inside of us and when we feel
10:59
better inside of us we pay attention to
11:01
ever or whatever caused it but but that
11:03
means then is that from the Newtonian
11:05
worlds that most people spend their
11:06
whole life living and lack will hitting
11:09
for something you change out there
11:10
what do you mean the Newtonian world
11:12
Newtonian world is all about the
11:14
predictable it’s all about predicting a
11:16
future but the quantum model of reality
11:18
is about causing an effect the moment
11:22
you start feeling abundant and worthy
11:24
you are generating wealth the moment
11:27
you’re empowered and feel it you’re
11:28
beginning to step towards your success
11:31
the moment you start feeling whole your
11:34
healing begins and when you love
11:35
yourself and you love all of life you’ll
11:37
create an equal and now you’re causing
11:39
an effect and I think that’s the the
11:42
difference between living as a victim in
11:44
your world saying I am this way because
11:46
of this person or that thing or this
11:48
experience they made me think and feel